May, 2011
05/13/2011

The Best of the Words I’ve Consumed 5-14-11

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Highlights From The Weekly Reading List

Here’s the best of what the iPad brought to me this week:

  • A Small-Scale Approach to Achieving Great Things is a great primer on personal, professional and other change. I highly recommend it. I have one financial and one physical goal I am shooting for and this post was a great inspiration to help me move in the right direction.
  • In case you missed it my beautiful bride joined twitter. She’s already adding great stuff to the Twitterverse including beating me to the punch on a couple of things that I would normally post. My father in law also jumped on the twitter train. Give him a follow.
  • For the spiritually interested: Dallas Willard interviewed by John Ortberg. Two of my long time heroes of spiritual life. One takeaway I’ve already been working on: “We have a prayer life but need to have a praying life. We have a devotional life but need a devoted life.
  • Rocks, Sand and Water (shameless self promotion).
  • I’m finally plodding my way through The Checklist Manifesto which was recommended to me by Josh Itzoe at Greenspring Wealth
  • As usual the Wizard of Ads was fantastic on Why Ads Fail.HINT: it’s not about targeting your audience better it’s about your message.
  • I am enjoying a new blog from Chris Jones (of Esquire Magazine) and particularly this post on writing something for nothing (a topic I have been thinking a lot about lately and am going to be writing more about this coming week).

Finally I had the great privilege of listening to Eugene Peterson talk at St. Mary’s Seminary Ecumenical Institute on Friday with my friend Josh Glaser. The Message has long been an incredible resource for me personally and it was an honor to hear from him. His gentle, pastoral heart (things I most often don’t possess) was inspiring and Josh and I both were encouraged.

If you’ve never read the Message here’s some excerpts from one of my favorite passage in this translation (from Psalm 16):

Keep me safe, O God, I’ve run for dear life to you.
I say to God, “Be my Lord!”
Without you, nothing makes sense.

The wise counsel God gives when I’m awake
is confirmed by my sleeping heart.
Day and night I’ll stick with God;
I’ve got a good thing going and I’m not letting go.

I’m happy from the inside out,
and from the outside in, I’m firmly formed.
You canceled my ticket to hell—
that’s not my destination!

Now you’ve got my feet on the life path,
all radiant from the shining of your face.
Ever since you took my hand,
I’m on the right way.

Keep Moving Forward,

Greg

05/10/2011

The Rocks in My Life

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My Rocks

I pontificated about rocks, water and sand this week in the Blue Ocean Ideas Weekly Idea.

I thought I’d share at least a few of the rocks in my life that I have tried to place before the sand and water.

Rocks in My Life

  • I take each of my kids out to breakfast ever Friday morning while they are in middle school. I’ve found this time to be invaluable for me and for my kids in creating a meaningful relationship during what can be turbulent middle school years.
  • Elise and I try to get out to dinner alone as often as we can. We love the meals out together and always have a great time. Our lives are hectic so 2 hours away from everything where we can be together feels like a mini vacation to me.
  • I read, study, and pray for 1 hour a day. During the week this is usually from 7-8am. On the weekend it’s generally a little later.
  • I keep my email inbox at close to 0 and my todo lists up to date. While I may not always get done everything on my todo lists I at least stay current. If I’m not getting something done I at least know about it and am able to consciously manage what I am and am not getting to. The zero inbox principle has made my life much easier to manage even though it is hard work keeping it there.
  • At least a couple of times a month I get together with friends. Friendships are important to me and they don’t happen by accident.
  • I spend time with older adults being mentored and younger adults mentoring. I longed for this when I was younger and committed in my early 30′s to make sure I spend time in these relationships.
  • I workout at least 4-5 times a week. This is always hard to fit in but the truth is no one is ever fit by accident. It’s always intentional.

Things that I want to be rocks

  • I want to be more consistent in managing my team each week. I know I have more to offer than I am bringing that will benefit everyone. It is incredibly easy in my business to get caught up in the daily things that need to get done and neglect spending quality time with my staff.
  • I want to add a more deliberate strength training routine into my life. I know how important this is and know I would see benefits immediately. Right now I run or swim 3-4 times per week, play ultimate frisbee once, and play football once. All of that is great but I am lacking on the strength front.
  • I want to be more committed to budgeting and managing our finances well. Elise and I have recently committed to a new budget and so far it has gone well. This is an important rock that I want to make sure is placed in our lives first.

So my question for you is “What are some of the rocks in your life or that you want in your life?”

Keep moving forward,

Greg

05/07/2011

An Ideal Saturday Night

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Crepe Du Jour

There are few things I love more than having an intimate dinner with Elise. Doesn’t have to be fancy, just a couple hours to steal away and be together is a great night.

Tonight we went to Crepe Du Jour in Mt. Washington. It was our first time there (thank you Groupon). We shared an appetizer, entree and dessert. Yum.

If you haven’t been there check it out. It’s really delicious.

05/07/2011

Thanks for your help Thursday!

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Thanks for your help Thursday at Towson University

Last Thursday I asked for 5 minutes of your time to give your thoughts on entrepreneurship, social media, and personal brands. I received some great comments from you that I shared with the class.

I was shocked that the class was packed full and most students were taking detailed notes. I thought I must on fire that day with my presentation. It wasn’t until the final 5 minutes of class that one young women raised her hand and said “Professor Maurer said that your material would be on the final…do you know which material he might test us on?”. Nice one Tim. I assured them that Professor Maurer had no idea what I was actually going to talk about.

I like to learn as much as I can from any audience and this one was engaged and interested in talking. I love that. Here are some of the things that I learned specifically (there were about 40 students in the room):

  • only about 10% called themselves “active” social media users
  • 95% were on Facebook, the 5% that weren’t had been but were taking a break
  • about 7% were on Twitter and most of them were not using it often
  • about 5% had heard of Words with Friends (the largest multi-player game on mobile phones)
  • 1 student was using linkedin
  • 3 students actively used groupon (the vast majority hadn’t heard of it)
  • there were no students that had personal blogs
  • all of these students were concerned about their ability to get a job after graduation
  • only 1 student considered themselves entrepreneurial
  • less than a handful wanted to own their own business

For the most part I wasn’t surprised by much of this information. The biggest social media takeaway that we find is that social media is largely a mobile device medium. If your audience doesn’t have an iPhone, android, blackberry, etc. then they generally will not be active in social spaces.

Now the great part

The great part about Thursday was the phenomenal responses I received from you. The students couldn’t believe that I had posted 3 hours prior to class and received the response that I did. They were also delighted to hear “real world” responses from people on these topics.

[Side note: These students favorite part of professor Maurer's class is that Tim is a real world business person so he speaks from experience not just from a textbook.]

Here are the key takeaways from you, the real contributors:

  • There is more to life than a paycheck.
  • Pursue your passions and success will follow.
  • Servant leadership has been the most effective leadership style for me.
  • Experiment with different things in social media. It’s a conversation; it should live and breathe and move.
  • Find what you love and can help people in the process of doing…then no matter what you get paid you will still be rich.
  • Strive to give more than you get – people who only focus on getting their needs met will never have enough.
  • Let people know you care about them – then they will care about what you know.
  • Acknowledge your mistakes, take full responsibility for them, figure out how to not make them again, make amends where necessary and possible, and then move on – carrying that baggage gets very heavy indeed and we weren’t meant to be that heavily yoked.
  • Always be open to learning – and realize that some lessons come from the most unexpected sources.
  • Don’t get locked into thinking something must be done a certain way since it’s always been done that way – don’t be afraid to go against the grain.
  • Work on your business not just in it – in many businesses management functions of planning, developing strategy, measuring performance, and evaluating results do not get the time and attention to detail that they require.
  • Understand your financials and make sure you have accurate data to help you make decisions.
  • Understand the cost of capital and make sure you reinvest in your business – many owners take too much out too soon and as a result struggle with cashflow.
  • Too much debt dramatically increases anxiety and stress levels and can suck the joy right out of going to work everyday.
  • Your brand is your truth, expressed consistently.
  • Listen to how those around you describe you – do you like what they are saying?
  • Nothing is more powerful than a “free agent” with a powerful brand.
  • Now is a great time to work on your brand before larger life commitments hem you in.
  • Find older wiser mentors to help you along the way.
  • Balance is completely underrated.
  • Be intentional, faithful, hard-working, creative, practiced, authentic, humble.
  • Have relationships that inspire you, challenge you, humble you, keep you balanced, provide rest, and make you better.
  • Live generously with everyone you come into contact with.
  • Don’t be surprised when you fail. Let it hurt. Learn from it. Become better and don’t make the same mistakes again.
  • Pursuing a dream profitably is much harder — and will take much longer — than I expected, but there is nothing like sleeping soundly with the knowledge that you are doing good work to the best of your ability, that you are responding to unmet needs, and that you are helping people.
  • Live by the Rotarian Code: Is it the truth? Is it fair to all concerned? Is it beneficial to all concerned? Does it build goodwill and better friendships?

The best part of my day on Thursday was being able to read through this list from such a great group of people. You couldn’t get much higher quality wisdom to start a career than what is on this list. For those of us a little further down the road this is a great reminder of what is important.

Keep moving forward,

Greg

05/05/2011

I need your help

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Can You Help Me?

About a dozen times a year my partner, Brody Bond, or I get a chance to speak in variety of settings including industry organizations, educational institutions, alumni associations, etc. We have a variety of topics that we enjoy discussing and we engage the audience as much as possible.

Generally we come up with material and we share topically based on our expertise in brand building, websites, marketing strategy, social media, ideas, etc.

I want to mix it up today.

Today at 12:30 I am guest lecturing for my friend and client Tim Maurer for his Financial Planning 101 class at Towson University. Tim’s a financial planner, author, and educator. He’s also a Vice President at the Financial Consulate in Hunt, Valley, MD. Tim asked us to speak on:

  • entrepreneurship
  • developing a personal brand
  • social media

Here’s where I need your help:

I don’t want this to be only my perspective. While I have some hard earned expertise on these subjects, I know that many of you have a TON to contribute. The experience will be much richer with your thoughts.

Can you take 5 minutes to share your thoughts on these topics in the comments below? I’ll be taking these comments with me and sharing them with students who could use your input.

Here are some things to keep in mind as you share:

  • leave as much or as little information as you want
  • think about things you wish you knew starting your career
  • any big life lessons you have learned along the way
  • don’t worry about being an “expert” in any of these topics
  • I realize these are VERY broad topics
  • share your bio, contact information, etc. if you would like
  • don’t be shy, we need your input

I’ll let you know how it goes.

Thanks!

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